SEPARATION
There are seven stages of transformation in the alchemical process which an initiate must undergo to achieve spiritual perfection. The third one of these stages is Separation:
Chemically, it is the isolation of the components of Dissolution by filtration and then discarding any non-genuine or unworthy material. Psychologically, this process is the rediscovery of our essence and the reclaiming of dream and visionary "gold" previously rejected by the masculine, rational part of our minds. It is largely a conscious process in which we review formerly hidden material and decide what to discard and what to reintegrate into our refined personality. Much of this shadowy material is things we are ashamed of or were taught to hide away by our parents, churches, and schooling. Separation is letting go of the self-inflicted restraints to our true nature, so we can shine through.